Sheikh Wael Rajab: "The Prophet’s marriage was based on the honor of lineage and nobility of character, so it was an ideal marriage"
Al-Azhar Mosque held a weekly forum on the Prophet’s biography under the title “A Blessed Marriage and an Honorable Origin,” with the participation of Dr. Khaled Abd al-Nabi Abd al-Razzaq, and Dr. Osama Mahdi, Professor of Hadith, at Asu al-Din College at Al-Azhar University in Cairo. The forum was moderated by Sheikh Wael Rajab. , researcher at Al-Azhar Mosque, and the presence of a number of researchers and the forum’s audience. One of the pioneers of Al-Azhar Mosque. At the beginning of the forum, Dr. Khaled Abd al-Nabi Abd al-Razzaq said that all people’s conditions find a reference in the biography of the Prophet, peace and blessings of God be upon him. The one who looks at the biography of the Prophet, peace and blessings of God be upon him, will find that God Almighty gathered in it the conditions of the servants, and the Prophet’s biography can be likened to Surat al-Fatihah in relation to the Qur’an, just as Surat Al-Fatihah in which God combined the purposes of the entire Qur’an. Likewise, in the biography of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, God combined the conditions of the time, so there is no incident of Events of time only find a reference for them in the biography of the Prophet, peace and blessings of God be upon him. Also, God Almighty made it an applied model for the provisions of the Holy Qur’an, so when Mrs. Aisha was asked about the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, she said: “His character was the Qur’an.”
The doctor explained Khaled Abdul Nabi, that the story of the marriage of the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, to Mrs. Khadija, the Mother of the Believers, may God be pleased with her, was distinguished by the fact that it combined the honor of origin and the ancestry of lineage. The Prophet The Prophet, peace and blessings of God be upon him, is a choice among the best, and Mrs. Khadija has been described by scholars as a wise and determined relative. The story of the marriage of the Prophet, peace and blessings of God be upon him, to Mrs. Khadija is an important indication regarding the competence between the spouses, because of the impact it has on the children. Mrs. Khadija is of good origin, and it has been narrated that her grandfather Qusay bin Kilab, who was one of the noble Arabs and was their leader, and she shares this lineage with the Messenger, peace and blessings of God be upon him, and her father had a brave stance when he… Between King of Yemen "Taba" He also decided to take the Black Stone from the Holy Kaaba and go to Yemen, as she inherited from her mother Fatima bint Zaida bin Al-Asam, mind and wisdom, and what indicates the soundness of her mind and wisdom is that she worked in trade, because of her knowledge of how to manage the interests of people and manage money, and for this reason she had a great position in the world. Her society because she combined origin and distinguished personality.
Dr. Khaled Abdel Nabi stated that pure lineage benefits Children and the husband benefit from it. When children are raised by a pure lineage, they learn from the traditions of their ancestors and preserve their approach to life. The best evidence of this is the two masters of the youth of the people of Paradise, Al-Hasan and Al-Hussein, may God be pleased with them. The origin had priority over the branch, and the husband benefited from it. We find that the Prophet The noble lineage of Lady Khadija, may God bless him and grant him peace, prompted her to support the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, with her money and herself, and she also filled the house of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace. His tranquility, calmness, and mercy, and we notice that when it was revealed to the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him. The revelation came to Mrs. Khadija and said: I feared for myself. Khadija said to him: No, give good news, for by God, God will never disgrace you,” adding that pure lineage extends its effect even after the departure of one of the spouses, so we find that the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, was saying about Khadija, may God be pleased with her, when Mrs. Aisha said to him, “ God Almighty has replaced you with something better than her. He, peace and blessings of God be upon him, said, “God Almighty has not given me anything better than her. She believed in me when people disbelieved in me, believed me when people denied me, consoled me with her money when people deprived me, and God Almighty blessed me with her child when he deprived me of children.” Women.
Dr. Osama Mahdi, professor of Hadith, emphasized the importance of the choice of spouses being based on good lineage and pure origin, which is what we observe in the marriage of the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, to Mrs. Khadija. May God be pleased with her, to establish the foundation for building marriage on solid foundations, and the ideas that we find in the minds of young people today about the mechanisms of choice are materialistic ideas spread by the enemies of Islam in our societies, but the correct marriage is Marriage that is based on the standards that came in the Sunnah and that the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, made practical models so that it is easy for us to understand and apply them, Our homes must be built on affection and compassion, and decorated with dialogue and understanding between spouses. The Hadith professor recommended to husbands the importance of paying attention to the spiritual aspect of married life, but reducing marital life to material matters is a lack of understanding of the value of this sublime relationship. This aspect is what remains in the relationship and makes it stable, and when we review the marriages of the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, we find that they were built and based on this. The human aspect, and it is also a choice of wisdom from God Almighty, which is why the Mothers of the Believers, may God be pleased with them, had a good impact on the honorable biography of the Prophet, because it was their choice that came comprehensively. He explained the good origin and good treatment between her and the Messenger of God, peace and blessings of God be upon him, explaining the necessity of emulating the Prophet, peace and blessings of God be upon him, in his relationship with his wives and good covenant. That is why he, peace and blessings of God be upon him, said, “Good covenant is part of faith.” If we take these matters into consideration, all marital disputes will disappear and there will be no discord between spouses.< /p>
Sheikh Wael Rajab, a researcher at Al-Azhar Mosque, added that the marriage of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, May God bless him and grant him peace, it was based on the honor of lineage and nobility of character, which is why it was an ideal marriage, to the point that when his uncle Abu Talib spoke about it on the day of his engagement to Lady Khadija, he said: Muhammad bin Abdullah is someone who cannot be compared to a young man from the Quraysh except that his righteousness, virtue, generosity, and intelligence outweigh him, even if There was little money, for money is a fleeting shadow and can be recovered, and he has a desire for Khadija bint Khuwaylid. And she has something like that in it. He did not find anyone to deny his statement, because the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, is one of the best of people in origin and lineage, and this is proven by his saying, peace and blessings be upon him: " God chose Kinanah from the descendants of Ishmael, He chose Quraysh from Kinanah, He chose Banu Hashim from Quraish, and He chose me from Banu Hashim.” The opponents and enemies of the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, also testified to his nobility of morals and good reputation, and Lady Khadija was famous among Arab women for her nobility and generosity, and Ibn Hajar says about her: Every honorable member of the Quraish wished to marry her, so she preferred to marry the Messenger of God – Peace be upon him – Thus, it affected the good of this world and the hereafter.”
It is noteworthy that the “Biography of the Prophet” Forum The Weekly is held on Wednesdays of every week in the Al-Azhar Al-Sharif Mosque, under the patronage of His Eminence the Grand Imam and under the guidance of His Eminence Dr. Muhammad Al-Duwaini, Undersecretary of Al-Azhar Al-Sharif, with the aim of reviewing the life of the Prophet Muhammad, peace and blessings be upon him, and shedding light on the honorable landmarks in this fragrant biography, and explaining how he grew up and how he dealt with With the people and how he managed the affairs of the nation, to learn about these noble meanings so that we can benefit from them in our lives.
